In 1997, right after we got married, we came to the U.S from
At my 7 month pregnancy check up, my ob-gyn took an ultrasound and sent me to see a specialist at a regional high risk pregnancy center. He took an ultrasound again and told us that something was going wrong with my baby’s heart. I said “What?” in my mind, but I was so shocked that I couldn’t say anything aloud. Then, in that afternoon, we saw a pediatric cardiologist at children’s hospital. The cardiologist took an ultrasound and came back to us with a picture of my baby’s heart. We were told that our baby girl had a congenital heart defect (CHD) called Tetralogy of Fallot (TOF). She also told us that our baby needed open heart surgery to fix the defect right after her birth or maybe at 3 months old. Timing of the surgery depended on how blue she would be. Even though usually my mind doesn’t get agitated much by hearing something in English, because it’s my second language, I remember my eyes were filled with tears. Since we found out the problem before my baby’s birth, we could prepare and plan the delivery but it was still a hard time for us to wait without any treatment.
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Until the surgery, our baby had cardiologist’s check-ups every month, and we made contact with members of the Saving Little Hearts (SLH). They introduced several other heart families who kindly shared their story. Those stories were very helpful for us to get prepared physically and emotionally for the surgery.
Our baby’s oxygen saturation was gradually going down and the time finally came. At that time, our daughter was 4 months old.
The open heart surgery went excellent and recovery started pretty well. We expected that we could go back home soon but, on the 3rd day of the recovery a complication occurred. We needed to wait until the problem was removed and, after 18 days of staying at hospital, we finally came back home. It was very tough time. Since then our daughter has been very well and she is a healthy toddler now.
As you know, some babies with CHD need heart transplants. At this point Japanese government doesn’t allow organ donations from children under age 15. So they need to come to the
During the stay at the hospital, families who we met through SLH came to see us even with it being a 3-hour drive. It was very kind and supported us very much because we do not have any family members here in the
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